Friday, April 8, 2011

Advice?

I am SO excited! We are taking our engagement pictures this weekend! I cannot wait! I have told you all about our amazing photographer (Sara Jayne) before, but in case you're new or missed it read about how cool she is: HERE!

I stalked her facebook page to show you some of the amazing engagement pics she has taken in the past, hopefully these couples don't think I'm completely creepy, but I just had to show you this amazingness!













To see more of Sara Jayne's incredible work, visit her website
www.sara-jayne.com

So here's where I need your advice...I have complete and total faith in Sara Jayne, I know she will take absolutely stunning photos, what I am worried about is me and J. We're both relatively photogenic, but we've never done a shoot before. I am worried the pictures won't be as amazing when it's me and J in them and I am looking at them with an uber-critical eye. So, I need some advice.

What did you ladies do or not do, or like or not like when it came to taking your engagement pictures?

Any advice on what to wear or what not to wear (for both me and J)?

What about outfit changes? How many changes did you do? How many locations did you shoot?

Ahhh! I am so excited and so nervous! Give me anything you've got!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Wedding Wednesday: Ceremony Music

When thinking about ceremony music I immediately knew who I wanted to do it and what I wanted it to to sound like, but it was picking the songs that was tricky.

J and I met Bruce on the very first day that Coffee Buzz was open. He very quickly became one of our most beloved customers and over the past year J and I have built a wonderful friendship with Bruce and his wife Cheryl.

Bruce is an extremely talented musician, I wrote about his band, Glad Rags HERE. Bruce also teaches music lessons, repairs instruments and does recording! I was so excited when Bruce agreed to play the music for our ceremony. We will have him on acoustic guitar which gives me chills just thinking about it! Our church is really small and with the number of guests we are inviting it is going to be packed, so I absolutely LOVE the thought of an acoustic guitar filling the space with music! Plus, having a friend do the music makes it that much more meaningful.

Choosing the music wasn't quite as easy. Part of me is really traditional and wanted the "classic" wedding music and part of me is nontraditional and wanted to walk down the aisle to one of my favorite songs. I spent a lot of time searching the internet and brainstorming songs.

Ever since the movie "Once" came out I have been in love with the song Falling Slowly. Then when (my fave) Kris Allen performed it on American Idol my love for the song turned in to obsession! I knew I wanted this song incorporated in to the ceremony somehow. Initially I wanted to walk down the aisle to it (yes, I love it that much) but I have since decided it's more appropriate as a song during the ceremony. So, as J and I are lighting our unity candle I am going to have Bruce and my beloved friend Robyn sing this wonderful song. I will cry my face off, it's best that I just embrace that now. Here's my boy Kris Allen performing the song (in case you haven't been lucky enough to hear this song before):


As for the processional and recessional, we're going more traditional.

For the processional I want to do "Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring" by Bach on acoustic guitar! Which will sound something like this:


When I heard Canon in D on acoustic guitar I got chills and teared up (I still tear up when I listen to it) so I knew this was the song I had to walk down the aisle to. It's classic, it's beautiful and I cannot wait. Here's how it sounds on acoustic (LOVE):


For the recessional I am kind of stuck. I know I want to do the classic "Wedding March" by Mendelssohn but I can't decide if I want Bruce to do it on the acoustic guitar sort of like this:


Or if I want it done on the organ so it's more dramatic, like this:


What do you think?!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

7 months!


In just 7 short months I will be marrying my best friend and the love of my life! I CANNOT believe how quickly time is going and with a jam packed summer schedule I know the big day will be here before we know it! I am so excited for all of the fun things that will be happening between now and November 5th!

This coming weekend we will be having one last night on the time before J's brother leaves for boot camp and then on Sunday we're taking out engagement pictures!!! So excited!

April 15th is my BB's birthday!


April 16th-20th I will be in Scottsdale!


The 22nd and 23rd my dad is hosting his yearly Best Buy Spring Invitational basketball tournament. It's always a ton of work but also a ton of fun!

May7th, my dear friends Steve & Christine are getting married! Can't wait!!!


May14th I will HOPEFULLY going to the Tim McGraw concert. J and I are going to try to scalp tickets! It's also my dad's b-day!


May 29th my little brother graduates college! I can't believe it! Then, that night is my friend Sara Jayne's Bachelorette Party!


June 4th my college friends Liz & Dustin are having their wedding reception! They are getting married in Jamaica this Friday!!!!!!!!!!!


June 12th is my BB's Bridal Shower! CAN'T WAIT!


June 24th & 25th we have out of town weddings. On Friday our friends Derrick & Stacey are getting married in Breezy Point. Then on Saturday our lovely friends and wedding photographers are getting married in Iowa! I have no idea if we're going to be able to pull off both weddings but we'll certainly try!


The July 2-3rd is 4th of July weekend, which is one of my favorite holidays!

July 6th is the BRITNEY CONCERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


July 13th-15th is my dad's HUGE Summer Basketball tournament. I mean, HUGE!

July 16th is my friend Alisha's Bachelorette Party!


July 23rd is my BB's BACHELORETTE PARTY! It's going to be crazy and fabulous and I am so excited! :)


August 9th I'll be going to the Sade concert with my dad!


August 17th is J's 31st Birthday!


August 26th-28th I will be escaping city life for a Bachelorette Lake Weekend with my best girlfriends! I am seriously so excited I can hardly stand it!


September 2nd-5th is not only Labor Day weekend but the start of the GOPHER FOOTBALL season! HOLLER!


September 10th our amazing friends Seth & Alisha are getting married!


September 17th is my BACHELORETTE PARTY!!!!!!!


September 23rd my friends John and Lauren are getting married!


September 24th my Gophers play my BB's alma mater the NDSU Bison! This game will be so fun!

September 30th is JAKE & CAROLYN'S WEDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


October 16th is my Bridal Shower hosted by my lovely bridesmaids!


October 22nd is J's Bachelor Party but I will be cheering loud and proud as my Gophers take on the Nebraska Cornhuskers.

October 29th is a HUGE Gopher game! We play the Iowa Hawkeyes which is a huge rivalry games, especially since Hawkeye fans are the most rude and irritating fans in college football! Plus, it's Halloween weekend which means all the Gopher fans will be dressed in costumes!


NOVEMBER 4th is our Rehearsal & Groom's dinner!

THEN on NOVEMBER 5TH, 7 months from today it will be my WEDDING DAY! And I will get to vow and promise to love this man for the rest of my life!

And the best of all, once it's all done I get to spend 7 days in sunny Mexico with my HUSBAND!!!!!!!


It's going to be a super crazy but super fun 214 days!


Monday, April 4, 2011

Hallelujah!

It's no secret that I've been hardcore stressed lately. I think it was my late night breakdown phone call to my mom and the fact that she won't be back in MN for over a month that prompted her to suggest possibly the best idea she's ever had.

On April 16th, I will be flying to Arizona to spend 4 days in Scottsdale!


I plan on doing NOTHING! I just want to relax!!!

OK, that's I lie, I'm not going to be doing nothing. I plan on spending my days laying out here:

That's my dog Koli, who I cannot wait to see! I also plan on taking her for a couple of walks!

I plan on catching some major "zzz's" in this super comfy bed:


I plan on going to Fashion Square to do some shopping:


Possibly enjoying one or two of these by the club's pool:


And, most of all I can't wait to spend some quality time with my all time favorite lady:


The only thing that could get me more excited was if I got to bring these two with me:


Happy Monday Y'all!!!!

Friday, April 1, 2011

Soup Diet

I always remember my dad and step-mom doing this crazy diet when we were younger. Every year before we went on Spring Break they would spend the week eating this disgusting looking soup, and every year they lost a bunch of weight. It was great for them but I remember thinking how crazy it was. Well here I am, 26 years old and less than two weeks away from my engagement photo shoot and I am nowhere near the physical goals I set for myself. So, I turned to my dad. This past week I have been doing the Cabbage Soup Diet.

But, isn't this just one of those fad diets? Yes. This is a plan to drop weight fast, not a lifestyle change. The diet is only 7 days long but it's legit. The diet was originally formulated by doctors to help obese heart patients drop weight fast before heart surgery. My dad has an entire book on the diet with the history and medical facts backing it up. There are a lot of super shady websites with the Cabbage Soup Diet on it, if you want to do it I recommend using my blog as a guide and feel free to e-mail me with ANY questions you have! :)

As much as it sucks, it works! In the past week I have lost 6 pounds and I feel great!!!!

I took this picture this morning---don't I look great? I wish. Hehe.

I decided to share the diet plan with you all and also include a sort of food diary so if any of you are interested you can see what I did....cuz it worked!

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The key to the diet is the soup, so here's the recipe:

-1 head of cabbage
-6 carrots
-6 stalks of celery
-1 white onion
-2 48oz cartons of Vegetable Broth (I use Swanson brand)
-6 cups of water
-1 package Lipton Onion Soup Mix
-2 cans tomato sauce
-Garlic (to taste)
-Salt & Pepper (to taste)

*The instructions are simple....chop up your veggies and mix them with the rest of the ingredients in a super large stock pot and simmer until the veggies are soft. When serving the soup feel free to add seasonings to spice it up. Some days I would use a little low sodium soy sauce to give it an Asian flavor and other days I would add some Franks Hot Sauce to make it nice and spicy.

*TIP: Make 2 separate batches of the soup. Use half the ingredients to make your first batch and use the remaining ingredients later in the week to make the second batch. This way the soup stays fresh!

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Rules & Regulations:
*You can eat as much soup as you want each day, but you MUST eat at least one bowl every day. Lucky for me I love soup, and thought this soup was really yummy, so it wasn't a huge problem for me, but I did get sick of it. I know my dad has an extreme hatred against the soup after the second day....so beware! The soup may get old....but keep your eye on the prize!

*Try and drink a ton of water. It helps you feel full, keeps you hydrated and gives you an oral fixation when you're so hungry you think you might snap. On the 5th day you need to drink at least 6 glasses of water to help rid your body of built up uric acid.

*You are allowed to drink coffee, but it has to be black! No milk, no sugar, no flavor shots. Black.

*NO ALCOHOL. Period.

*Each day you are allowed to have one small bowl of a fiber rich cereal with skim milk to help keep you regular (if you know what I mean). Trust me, you are going to want to eat this cereal...it not only tastes amazing (when all you've been eating is fruits and veggies) but you're going want to go to the bathroom!

*There is not an exercise program that goes along with this diet plan, in fact you may not have enough energy the first few days to work out. Whether you work out or not you will see results and lose weight! I just really wanted to get the best results possible to I tried to get in at least a little cardio each day of the diet.

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Diet Plan & Food Diary:

DAY 1:
Fruit is the objective of the first day:
Eat your cabbage soup with all the fruits that you want, except for bananas. Cranberry juice, unsweetened teas, or water are the only drinks that can be taken.

I quickly found that a set breakfast, lunch and dinner weren't going to cut it on this day....you will starve to death. So I kind of just grazed all day long. Throughout the day, I had 2 kiwis, a mango, a pear, a handful of raspberries, a cup of unsweetened Green Jasmine Mango tea and a HUGE bowl of cabbage soup.

DAY 2: Make vegetables a big part of day two: You can eat any kind of cooked or raw vegetable as much as you like along with your soup. Try to pile up on leafy dark vegetables while avoiding those dry peas, beans and corn. During supper, a large potato that has been baled in the oven and lightly touched with butter may be consumed. Refrain from fruits on this day.

This day was tough because it was Saturday and we were on the run. J was playing in a b-ball tournament so I needed to bring my veggies to go. I started the day with a bowl of Fiber One cereal with skim milk (I use 1/2 a cup of each). Then throughout the day I had two snack packs of baby carrots and a can of V8 juice and then had a bowl of cabbage soup for lunch. For dinner I made my baked potato (so amazing) and also sauteed spinach with onions and garlic. It was a surprisingly filling meal, and super delicious! I also somehow managed to get the energy to go for a 5.25 mile walk!

DAY 3:
Mix one and two:
Incorporate the essentials found in the 1st and 2nd day, dropping the baked potato. Eat as much fruits and vegetables that you want to on this day together with you cabbage soup.

I once again started my day with a small bowl of Fiber One Original Cereal and Skim Milk and paired it with a huge cup of unsweetened hot Green Jasmine Mango tea. Throughout the day I grazed on cantaloupe, red grapes and baby carrots. I had 2 bowls of soup this day, one in the afternoon and one in the evening. This was a tough day because J and I went to the Timberwolves vs Celtics game and it was a HUGE challenge to order a bowl of fresh fruit when everyone else in the suite was eating nachos and chicken fingers. But, I stuck with it.

DAY 4:
Skimmed milk and bananas:
You may have to endure eating a lot of bananas on this day. Consume up to eight bananas and take as much skimmed milk as you can, eating it together with your soup.

This was the day I wanted to quit. I once again started the day with Fiber One cereal and skim milk along with a green mango hot tea. Then, I ate a sh*# ton of bananas. Throughout the day I ate six bananas, ate a bowl of soup, and then had two more bananas for dinner---which I ordered at a restaurant. It was weird, but I'm committed. I also tried to drink a ton of milk, which was harder than I thought. I wanted "normal" food so bad this day. BUT, I knew I was half way done and if I could just stick with it I would be happy I did.

DAY 5:

Tomatoes and a little bit of beef:
Start including six fresh tomatoes and between ten and twenty ounces of beef with your cabbage soup. It is recommended that you consume a minimum of 6 glasses of water, more if you can. This will aid in removing the Uric Acid that has accumulated in your body. Take your soup at least once on this 5th day. If you don’t like beef, baked chicken may be eaten instead. However, remember not to consume the skin on your chicken only the white meat.

This was without a doubt the worst day for me. I HATE (like despise) tomatoes, so I was stressing all day on how I was going to somehow eat 6 of them. I loaded up on soup all day and of course had my cereal for breakfast. For dinner I had a nice big boneless, skinless chicken breast. For my tomatoes, I ended up throwing them in the blender and liquefying them as much as they would liquefy, I added some water, garlic, s&p and oregano put it on the stove and tried to make tomato soup. It definitely didn't taste like tomato soup---but it was to the point I could get it down, kind of. I almost puked twice but over the course of two hours I was able to keep all 6 tomatoes down. So glad that's over.

DAY 6:
All the beef you can eat plus vegetables:
Together with your soup, you can eat as much beef and vegetables as you like on the 6th day of the cabbage soup diet. You can consume up to 2 or 3 steaks if you want together with your leafy dark green vegetables.

BEST DAY EVER! :) I had cereal and soup throughout the day and then for dinner my fabulous dad grilled me a nice big 10oz filet! So yummy! I had roasted broccoli and asparagus on the side and I was SO happy! After a week of crappy crap it was seriously heaven. My only regret is that I didn't have like 12 more steaks throughout the day.

DAY 7:
Eat brown rice with your vegetables and cabbage soup while drinking unsweetened and fresh fruit juices.

Yesterday I had brown rice for breakfast, brown rice for lunch and brown rice for dinner and it was amazing! I am a carb-o-holic so getting rice was like Christmas morning! I polished off the end of my soup throughout the day and of course had Fiber One to start the day.

I made it! I somehow completed this terrible diet without cheating and it worked. I was really hoping to lose 8 pounds, but 6 pounds gone? I'll take it! Now if I can just eat healthy and continue to work out I'll be in good shape and ready for summer (and my engagement pics!)